Congratulations – you hooked up with that hottie your friends were all drooling over. But what happens after you sleep with her?
Do you want a one-night thing? Friends with benefits? To date her, but not be exclusive? Threesomes? A Traditional Relationship? What if you want to change your mind later?
No problem.
These quick tips below will help you avoid drama, stalkers and jealousy – or, if you want her to stick around, make sure that it will happen. All exclusive from Love Systems (formerly Mystery Method), the guys who have cracked the code of getting beautiful women to say yes.
1. Before You’ve Slept With Her
With most guys, getting her into bed is the first goal – everything else is “we’ll cross that bridge when we come to it.” If you don’t know if you’ll be able to sleep with her, why worry about what comes next?
If you’ve studied Love Systems, the process of getting beautiful women into bed becomes more consistent. And it gets more important to give off the right signals before you close the deal.
Put it this way – SHE is wondering what your intentions are. Just because you’re not thinking about it doesn’t mean she won’t. Giving her no signals just means she will misinterpret something you say, or substitute her own wishful thinking.
2. Aim Low
Love Systems research shows that there are really only six basic relationship types. These go from the highest commitment (traditional relationships) to the lowest (friends with benefits).
It’s always easier to go up in commitment level than it is to go down. As long as you’re sleeping with her, you have a good chance of eventually moving to the kind of relationship you want. But telling your girlfriend that you want to see other women is a lot harder…
3. Never Lie
I don’t care about your ethics – lying is simply not practical.
If you lie and are caught, you give up any justification for what you’re doing. You can’t lie about seeing other women, and then when you’re caught, explain that seeing other women is OK. Be a man about your desires. Using Love Systems relationship techniques, you should never have to lie to get what you want – you’ll be surprised at what you can “get away with.”
4. Excitement and Variety
Variety and excitement are the most important things a guy can do to sustain any relationship, whether casual or committed. It’s okay to spend Friday night on your couch with the TV once in a while, but if that’s all you do, she’ll be a lot more tempted the next time someone else asks her on a real date. Even if you’re just friends with benefits, she’ll get bored if every late-night hookup is predictable.
If she’s your girlfriend, take her on a date once in a while. Don’t let things become routine or make her feel she’s been taken for granted or not appreciated.
5. Help her be perfect
In any human relationship – at work, with friends, or with women – if you reward something, you’ll usually get more of it, and if you don’t, you’ll get less. My current girlfriend always makes sure she looks stunning before she comes over. I didn’t tell her to do this, but I compliment her and make her feel good when she does. She likes that, so I get more of it.
When my ex-girlfriend went through my phone (not cool), she got less attention from me. Women thrive on attention, so this didn’t feel good, and she never went through my phone again.
Pay attention to what you’re rewarding and what you’re not. Most people give off contradictory signals if they’re not paying attention. You can’t expect a woman to give you exactly what you want if she doesn’t know what it is.
For more information on Relationship Management, check out the NEW Love Systems Relationship Management DVD set by going to LoveSystems.com. To learn how to use Love Systems to pick up beautiful women in the first place, check out Savoy’s new book – including free sample chapters – at LoveSystems.com/Magic-Bullets.